30 September 2023

Six Months Without Social Media: An Honest Review

In April I deleted Instagram, Twitter/X, and TikTok from my phone. Not deactivated — just removed the apps. The accounts still exist. I just made them inconvenient to access.

Six months later, here’s the honest version.

What Got Better

Sleep. Almost immediately. I hadn’t realised how often I was reaching for my phone at 11pm and emerging 45 minutes later, vaguely anxious about nothing in particular.

Attention span. I can read for longer stretches without feeling the itch to check something. This surprised me more than anything else. I thought my short attention span was just who I was now. Apparently it was trained.

Mood baseline. Harder to measure, but I feel less vaguely dissatisfied than I used to. I think a lot of that was ambient comparison — other people’s holidays, bodies, careers, lives — that I was absorbing without noticing.

What Didn’t Change

I didn’t become more productive in some dramatic, life-changing way. I didn’t write a novel or learn a language with all my freed-up time. Mostly I replaced scrolling with other low-effort activities — reading, podcasts, staring out the window.

What I Miss

Genuinely nothing, which is the thing that surprised me most. I thought I’d miss feeling connected. I don’t. The people I actually care about communicate through other means.

Would I Recommend It?

Yes, but with a caveat: the first two weeks are uncomfortable in a way that tells you something. Sit with that feeling instead of immediately filling the gap.